Someone very close to me is in real trouble. And she doesn't even know it. Or she does but refuses to see that she has fallen.
When a person is strong, knows who she is, and showed perseverance - no matter the hoops she has to go through, much is expected from her. So, falling is not an option for this kind of person. Because when she chose to shed everything for a bit of something that looks like happiness, the world will not accept it.